Author/Writer
Dear Reader…
I’m a mother, writer, and I also dabble in home-based business. I’m passionate about parenting, marriage and relationships; also self-help and well-being for women. Writing books on Kindle is for me an adventure in problem-solving as well as an opportunity to prepare for the challenges I or other members of my family are facing, or likely to face, at some point in the future.
It is also my way of contributing to the wider community – by distilling crucial answers to the burning questions we have today.
My unique talent and contribution is looking at a problem and thinking in 3D, then coming up with simple solutions the average person can put to action and get the results they’re looking for, fast and easily. I then cut through the clutter and put it all together such that it’s compact, distilled, and easy to understand.
One of my first books in this vein was Gaming Addiction In Children and while writing it, it came to my attention that a major cause of problems such as game addiction is the breakdown of, and dysfunction in, families. This led to looking at marriage and its problems, and at parenting and it’s problems. And a major part of why marriages struggle or break up or dysfunction has to do with mistakes made at the dating (mate-seeking) stage. Hence my Women’s Dating Dilemmas Answered ebook series.
Still, almost any marriage can be redeemed if couples are willing to become better communicators, so that they can negotiate a modus vivendi, or way of living together, that works for both partners. We have some agency in the small matter of “falling in love” according to the experts… you can grow to really love someone you were lukewarm with, simply through leveraging superior emotional intelligence along with superior communication.
Hence my flagship title, Supercommunicator Spouses.
You can look at what I’m building here as a problem-solving pyramid. Superior communication in a marriage improves everything else. Husbands give more of themselves and their time and compassion to their wives and their children. When husbands do this, wives become better home managers … and way happier too. Their kids become happier; more resilient. And if you can believe it, kids who grow up in happy, harmonious homes tend to become popular in elementary school (according to a research study).
Welcome… Enjoy – and make happy!
Pat Fonda