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Have Him At Hello Book Review

 Here’s my short and snappy review of the book: Have Him At Hello ~ Confessions From 1,000 Guys About What Makes Them Fall In Love… Or Never call Back

Rachel Greenwald based her book on research she did, with data collected, to answer the question: “When you finally meet Mr. Right (or even Mr. Potential), what really compels him to call back (or not) after a date?


In these “exit interviews” that Rachel conducted, she refused to accept the common post-date brush-off from men, “There wasn’t any chemistry…” or the excited, but equally vague evening recap, “We hit it off!”  Rachel extracted unabashedly honest and raw details.  It turns out there are clear, tangible, consistent reasons why marriage-minded men either fall for you or disappear.  The surprising “Top 5 Date Makers” and “Top 10 Date Breakers” revealed in this book can actually change your fate when Mr. Right finally comes along.

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What others have said about “Have Him At Hello”

“I was so sick of friends and dating books that tell you platitudes like “the right guy will show up when you least expect it” or “find someone else who deserves you”. I just wanted to know what to DO so I could find the right partner. THIS WAS THE FIRST BOOK that gave me SMART tips and real examples from 1,000 guys.

“Now it all makes sense: I took the quizzes in her book and found out I’ve been coming across as part “Boss Lady” (the TOP date-breaker) and part “Flasher” this whole time. In other words, I could come off as too independent and honest-to-a-fault (on a first date).” Read the full review here…

If you’ve had the problem of going out on second dates (the men not calling back after the first date), this reviewer offered some insights:

“I have had similar problems in getting second dates after going out with really nice guys (and my friends tell me I have a good fun personality with pretty looks as well). While reading the book, I realized I was doing a couple of the classic top 10 date-breaker mistakes. So I consciously corrected those as suggested in the book, and really from the next date onwards, my experience changed dramatically.

“I also appreciated the golden rule she has given in the book — for a smart woman it’s anyway difficult to find a compatible guy, so if you have to go on 100 dates to find the RIGHT ONE, you can NOT afford to have ANY guy NOT call you back (so that the ball always remains in your court).” Read the rest of her review here

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