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“I’m Very Attractive And Smart/Successful But I’m Having A Hard Time Finding Mr. Right!”

 If you’re a smart, strong or successful woman on the dating scene and you’re feeling frustrated, angry and confused for failing to find Mr. Right fast, so you can settle down… and possibly you’re feeling unworthy of being loved, this will be good news for you!

First, though, here’s what I wish for you…why I wrote this guide:

why smart success full women struggle to find love

I’ve always believed a woman on the dating scene should focus maximally on what she wants in a future husband because, from my experience in making friends, there is something about finding a kindred spirit that is life affirming, complex, and interesting.

A woman shouldn’t have to become a psychologist to find Mr. Right because, at a basic level we know what we want – and finding a person with whom we can gel should almost be instinctive.

But things get distorted fast on the dating scene and women find themselves focusing more on their faults, their baggage, and so on… They lose sight of the ball.

So, in deciding to write this series, I thought to myself, wouldn’t it help a lot of women if they could quickly sort their baggage, fix themselves in the broken areas, fix the fault lines in their personalities where they can… and then focus much more on what they want – and on amplifying their strengths to magnify their chances of finding the right guy?

I myself experienced a lot of frustration on the dating scene once and working through the tons of information on dating alone was quite challenging – let alone finding the time to sort through my baggage and trying to fix my personality!

And I know from common observation that part of the reason why divorce rates are high is because most people, men and women, find themselves in marriages they “ended up in” rather than marriages they thought out and through – like you should when making one of the most important decisions of your life, don’t you think?

They get derailed. They get ambushed. They focus on the trivial.

So, in “I’m Very Attractive And Smart/Successful But I Have A Hard Time Finding Mr. Right!” my goal is to give the very smart or very successful or strong woman insights on what you’re likely to go through on the dating scene so that you can make smarter choices going forward.

The info is curated from a very popular forum from the early years of the internet… So you’ll hear from other women in the same situation as you are now; women who have gone through the experience and who have paid the price. We’ll also hear from women and men on that same dating scene, as they chimed in to a call for help. We’ll also hear from a dating coach for women.

Most women in this category (very smart, highly educated, professionally successful, or rich and strong) tend to start serious dating late, when they finally decide to settle down. And so, time is short. You want to “cut to the chase” if you’ll pardon the pan.

The table of contents should tell you the rest – and what’s in it for you!

How this saves you time, frustration and heartache… and helps you make smarter choices

We’ll meet Mrs Vee… She was a catch – professionally successful, cute and well-educated. She got seriously involved with a man who wanted to marry her – charismatic and funny, intense and intelligent. And poor. Problem was, they didn’t gel – she was always finding things wrong with him she wanted to change… Good lessons there on the interplay of emotions when a relationship isn’t going well… the “unfulfilled dreams,” the guilt, the anguish. Anyway, that relationship collapsed, but Mrs. Vee learned some valuable lessons – and she changed her approach for the next guy (two guys, in fact). One became her “dreamboat love.” Mrs. Vee found she didn’t have to conceal her “personal power” from the men she dated next. And not one of them elicited from her the desire to nag or correct them – both the next two guys earned significantly less than her.

+ An in depth look at what men want – and do not want – from women in your category: smart, strong, successful.

+ How to get valuable feedback from guys who dated you that will help you work it out where you need to touch up your emotional intelligence, and to amplify your strengths and positioning.

+ How to get a guy to answer relationship questions

+ A primer and a tool to quickly boost your emotional intelligence, EQ. A high EQ will help you get skilled at finding out exactly what it is that your date is looking for in his life and relationships. This isn’t what you think his answer would be, but what the real answer is! And you do this by asking him. First, though, you need to know how to get him to answer relationship questions! But it’s worth the hassle…. This is the secret to getting a man to commit, in fact, looking ahead! You glean out of him what he wants in life and relationships… and then you simply become the woman for whom he chooses to trade his freedom, responsibility, loss of choice, expense, increased stress, etc. (Leverage by Positioning)

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